In relationships, this usually means we might cross paths later in life, but not right now. In goodbye parties, it means we will see each other again.
There is such a certainty in the last statement that I leave with no fear, regrets nor unease to study abroad in France. It gives me something to look forward to when I am away—a new experience to share.
Saying goodbye does not always have to be sad, it can be a joyful act. I planned my goodbye party so I could enjoy the rest of the two weeks with my friends and family. Yes, I am a planner.
I planned the party and invited my guests, and my roommates made sure that I had hors d’oeuvres and orange lilies on the table. I planned to have fun, and I did.
My past French teacher arrived with sparkling cranberry cider; a member of the French club had coconut biscuits to share; my sister brought the karaoke machine; my best friend’s sister came with a gift in hand and everyone brought the most important thing—their positive attitude.
I enjoyed the soirée with my friends and family. The food was délicieux and the dancing and singing kept me living in the present. I did not think about packing les valises or my room situation abroad. All I could think was how lucky I am to have such great amies.
Five months. They will go by in a breeze. Five months. They will be full of adventures. Five months. They will teach me how to miss my loved ones.
Thank you all for coming and sharing my last weeks with me. Bon voyage à moi!
Five months. . . seems a long time to me. But your time will be filled with so much joy. I will miss you, Gitzel, my friend.
ReplyDeleteFantastic post. There's really only one person you'll be saying a permanent good bye to. That's who you are at this moment. As this adventure begins, you'll never be the same person - and that's an incredible thing. You're embracing on an adventure that goes way beyond foreign culture, old architecture and good food. You're embarking upon an adventure to continue your development as an individual. A trip that will give you a new understanding of the world at large, as well as your place and role within it.
ReplyDeleteHave an amazing time and embrace every opportunity and experience. We'll be here when you get home =)
Thank you both for your beautiful posts! I will miss you too Sheilah, and Alex, I appreciate for your wise words :)
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